10 Suggested “commandments” of respectful Facebook etiquette

#1 – Your business is NOT you. If you have a business you should ALSO have a Facebook page for your business and invite people to like/friend your business page. To mix your personal and business post on the same personal page is to presume upon others an interest in your business. Most of you know that Barbie and I make almost 100% of our income from our online business and apart from a rare update (maybe 3 or 4 times a year) you do not endure daily, weekly or even monthly business post for our lock company. If your business is indeed legitimate then you should conduct yourself accordingly and invite friends to subscribe to your business page and let them make that choice instead of making it for them and everybody else who sees their thread.
#2 – Think twice before liking something which is not of a personal nature. All of us like stuff. But all of us do not necessarily like ALL the same stuff. Limit your likes of random non personal stuff like the most recent gadget, political, religious or vacation spot. Just this week I scrolled through almost 30 “likes” in a row which had nothing to do with me or my interest.  Most of us do want to see your personal pictures, plans or passions but not necessarily your most recent shopping or restaurant experience.
#3 – I love scripture, God and Godly exhortations. But sharing a bunch of spiritual memes, pictures of Jesus in the clouds with a scripture or pre-packaged motivational messages often (actually almost always) feels impersonal and trite. If you have an encouragement feel free to IM a personal note or at least take the time to write it out yourself instead of just clicking like or share on something canned.
#4 – Please consider carefully when you share something with curse words, gross or vulgar images. Not everyone is as mature as you in their ability to handle that type of stuff (read sarcasm).
#5 – We get it, you exercise. We do not, however, need to know every time you go to the gym. You can also substitute various other repetitive activities to this rule i.e. eating out, shopping, golfing, etc.
#6 – We get it, you are against (fill in the blank) and you are in favor of (fill in the blank). We do not need to be reminded daily or multiple times a day of these facts.
#7 – Take the time to check the validity of something before you share it. There are lots of bogus stories, fake pictures, scam free stuff etc. etc. out there. PLEASE, the old adage still holds true today, “if something sounds (looks, feels) too good to be true is probably is.” Google stuff or check it out on Snopes.com before you pass on questionable stuff.  Oh, and for the record, the gargantuan cat hedge sculptures are photo shopped, Mel Gibson was never attacked and beaten in his youth and Mercedes is NOT giving away 10 cars.
#8 – As a general rule, try and stick to making comments about your own country. I really don’t think Americans should be giving strong political critiques of another countries election, immigration policy or other cultural practices and I believe the same should be true about other nationalities towards America. I am not speaking about expressing sympathy for tragedies or promoting positive or interesting news.
#9 – Don’t request or share stuff with the expressed desire for it to “GO VIRAL”. Going viral is a spontaneous explosion of interest or activity about a video or product not manufactured interest because you “begged” for it to go viral.
#10 – And last but not least, Do NOT, I repeat do NOT try and test or define any friend’s friendship with a challenge to like or share a post.  Really???

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